உறியும் போது, " நீ என் முலையைபிசயும்போது என் தோழி கமலாவும் பார்த்துட்டா, நாளைக்குஎங்க ரெண்டு பேரையும் சேர்த்து ஒரே நேரத்தில் ஓக்கணும்,சரியா?
Her parents had already shifted to Delhi with her and then her sisters also joined and completed the family coterie around her.
ln a two room house it used to become really overcrowded and I felt highly suffocated, Gradually I began to feel very uncomfortable there as her parents would interfere in our personal relationship and we began to drift apart.
She does not feel comfortable in that house but has to stay there since she is trying for her MBBS degree. Even Kiran mentioned it once but I refused saying our achievement is mine". There was a time when she had called me 'her god' in one such interviews.
There are things in life over which no one has any control. People are not surprised at Kiran Bedi becoming an IPS officer but her having been married is considered strange. Maybe because of this sourness there have been rumours about a divorce? But then things became really bad between us, For our daughter's sake I never thought of a divorce. that more than doing things about prisoners, the criminals the need is to do something about the society outside. lts time she should quit and involve in the larger canvas. Her own parents had such a hold over her that she could not breakaway from them.
l would never have married such a home bound person. The problems were there side by side but like all newly weds we ignored them. I had induced her to take on a challenge and accept the strenuous IPS training.
Since it was already decided in our case that she would be posted outside l was mentally prepared to be a visiting husband Besides where there is love there is no ego. Sometimes when she would be tired I pressed her legs also. After two months of marriage she got the call for training. We used to write five letters everyday with numbers 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, marked on them. Her parents resisted as there were 'no women r officers in the lndian police force then.Her maternal grandparents are there but she resists them like anything.She is the real sufferer; Now she herself is an adult and understands the situation but has not been able to fully cope up.பென்சுக்கு கீழே இருந்து வந்தது மாதிரி இருந்ததால், மெல்ல கீழே குனிந்து பார்த்தேன்,பவித்ரா ஒரு பென்சிலை வைத்து அவள் புண்டையை மெல்ல தேய்த்துக் கொன்டிருந்தாள்.எனக்கோ ஆச்சரியம்.பாடம் நடைபெற்றுக் கொண்டிருக்கும் பொழுதே அவள் அப்படிசெய்கிறாளே?சிறிது நேரத்திற்கு பிறகு, அவள் "வா, நான் பாத்ரூம் போகணும்"என்றாள்.