parties must be enthusiastic about the prospect of one another’s company. Because attractive, non-needy, high self-worth people don’t have time for people who they are not excited to be with and who are not excited to be with them. But is applicable to dating, sex, relationships, even friendships. It doesn’t sound like the answer is a “Fuck yes.” Then it’s time to move on.You may have absolutely nothing in common with that bartender. Making out with a girl at your house and every time you go to take her shirt off she swats your hands away?
Build yourself into a person others would say “Fuck Yes” to.
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These things may seem clever and exciting to some people who are stuck or frustrated. If you’re in the grey area to begin with, you’ve already lost. The entrepreneur Derek Sivers once wrote a blog post where he said, “If I’m not saying ‘Hell Yeah!
Let me ask again: , what makes you think they’ll be happy to be with you later? ’ to something, then I say ‘no.'” It served him well in the business world and now I’d like to apply it to the dating world.
You can be “Fuck Yes” about getting to know someone better.
You can be “Fuck Yes” about seeing someone again because you think there’s something there.
Ask yourself, what is it about yourself that would inspire others to say “Fuck Yes” about you?
If the answer is not obvious, then you get to work.
Therefore, it’s a “no.” You may be a “Fuck Yes” on banging someone’s brains out, but a definite “No” on actually spending any time with them.
Apply the law to your decision-making as it suits your current needs.
Most dating advice exists to “solve” this grey area for people. Or how men need to transition from attraction phase to comfort phase by qualifying three times before they’re allowed to commence an escalation ladder.